The Perspective of Islam on Abstinence from Sex as a Correctional Measure in the Matrimonial Home
Keywords:
Islam, abstinence, sex, correctional measure, matrimonial homeAbstract
Misconception as well as misrepresentation of some terminologies in sexuality education coupled with complaints cum lamentations about sexual denial by some married individuals in their matrimonial home prompted this research. In particular, sexual abstinence is being used erroneously and interchangeably as sexual starvation as observed in the application of the terms in many reports. Somewhat, recourse to the scriptures for adequate contextual understanding of a reported scenario on this subject matter seems little considered.
Leveraging the tenets of Islam viz-a-viz sexual practices, the differences between both terms (sexual abstinence and sexual starvation) were stated in this paper for clearer picture of a reported scenario. It was established that aside being a naturally inevitable practice, sexual abstinence is also divinely revealed as a measure to correcting deviant behaviour. For correctional purpose, however, it must not only be devoid of emotional and psychological trauma, but also must be employed within a relatively short period. On no occasion is sexual abstinence admitted a measure for punishment or torture in Islam.
Some recommendations were made to reduce sexual denial minimally even as a correctional measure or avert it totally in the Muslims marital life. They include internalization of the tenets of Islam, conscientious discharge of marital responsibilities, communication and amicable settlement of conflicts to mention few.
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